Safer Fisting Guide Advisory Group

Help shape a community-informed sexual health resource

We're creating a community-informed guide to safer fisting—one that's honest, practical, and grounded in real experience.

Fisting is something that many people are curious about, but information can be limited, intimidating, or unclear. This project aims to change that by creating a resource that centres:

  • Safety and harm reduction
  • Informed, enthusiastic consent
  • Real-life insights from people who actually do it

To make this guide meaningful, we're bringing together a paid Advisory Group of community members to help shape it.

Read the terms of reference here.

 

Get Involved

Interested in joining?

Fill out the Expression of Interest form below. We'll follow up with everyone to discuss next steps. If you have any questions, please email us at info [at] maxottawa.ca.

The Goal of the Group

To create a resource that's:

  • Clear and accessible
  • Grounded in lived experience
  • Focused on safety, consent, and confidence
  • Actually useful
Why Join?

This is a chance to:

  • Share your knowledge and lived experience
  • Help create a resource that supports safer exploration
  • Contribute to sex-positive, stigma-free education
  • Make sure diverse perspectives are represented
Who We're Looking For

We're looking for up to 8 people who:

  • Identify as 2SLGBTQIA+
  • Have experience with fisting (anal and/or vaginal)
  • Are open to sharing insights in a group setting

We welcome a range of experiences, identities, and perspectives.

What You'll Do

As part of the Advisory Group, you'll:

  • Share tips, insights, and things people who would like to try fisting should know
  • Highlight common mistakes and safer practices
  • Help identify what should be included in the guide
  • Review draft content, visuals, and overall approach
  • Ensure the final resource reflects real experiences
What to Expect
  • 2-4 sessions total (scheduling decided together)
  • Collaborative, discussion-based conversations
  • A respectful, consent-forward space
  • Support and facilitation throughout
  • Meetings may be hybrid, in-person, or virtual depending on preference and availability
  • Compensation: participants receive $50 per session
Privacy & Recognition
  • You can choose to be credited or anonymous
  • All final materials will be developed and published by MAX