Loading Events

« All Events

  • This event has passed.

House of Kink: No Boys Allowed – a sexy slumber party

January 17 @ 10:00 pm January 18 @ 2:30 am

The leading ladies of House of Kink are delighted to introduce Ottawa to a whole new event series called “No Boys Allowed” (NBA). NBA parties are bi+ events that aim to cultivate a safe and welcoming environment for women and other individuals with non-cis-male gender identities to authentically express their sensual and sexual selves, connect and engage in erotic energy together, and explore their curiosities. NBA parties are explicitly welcoming to folks who identify as women or non-cis-male identities (including trans, and/or nonbinary).

*Bi+ meaning catering to bi-sexual and bi-curious women and other individuals with non-cis-male gender identities, but also inclusive of queer, pan, lesbian, sapphic, omni and other multisexual identities.

These dance events offer a safe environment for flirtation and playfulness without the feeling of pressure or predatory behaviour that can sometimes come from the cis-male gaze. We welcome women and individuals with non cis-male gender identifies from all backgrounds and of all body types at NBA events.

This first NBA event has a special theme: SLUMBER PARTY! Put on your sexiest sleepwear and come out to Charlotte where you will dance the night away to dreamy musical beats made by local women DJs – ALAMUSIC and MADISON.

There will be a number of mingling activities available to help you connect with others, including a bracelet-making station, a spin-the-bottle station, and a kinky hair play station.

Charlotte’s mixologists (all women) will also be whipping up a custom cocktail list just for our community.

Once you purchase your ticket, keep an eye out on your email where we’ll be sending you the sexy secret password!

Event Rules

We ask that you please carefully read the following before the event.

  • This event is for women and non-cis-male gender identities only. [Don’t worry, more HoK parties that are open to everyone are coming soon]!
  • Dress Code – Slumber party theme (though kinky/fetish attire is always welcome). If you are unsure of what to wear, please DM the HoK team.

We have created a Pinterest board to help inspire you:

Sexy slumber party: sexy PJs, lingerie, etc.

  • Always ask for clear, enthusiastic and ongoing consent before any physical contact or activity.
  • Public sex and exposed genitals are not permitted on the premises.
  • Personal kinky tools/toys (e.g., whips, floggers) are not permitted at the event.
  • Personal photography: there will be a designated photography safe zone at the event. We ask that you only take photos in this area, to protect the privacy of other guests outside the event.
  • Professional photography: we will have a woman photographer at the event for a portion of the evening who will capture photos of consenting guests.
  • Support and assistance available: If you feel unsafe or someone is bothering you or have questions or concerns, please tell a HoK Team Member! Team members will be marked with glowing red armbands or you can report to the person at the door, who will connect you with an HoK Team Member.

Please secure your ticket in advance, as we rarely have tickets available at the door.

This is an event for women and non-cis-male individuals only.

Charlotte has hangers available for your coats.

$30 – $40 $30 early bird / $35 tier 2 / $40 door
340b Elgin St.
Ottawa,OntarioK2P 1M6Canada
(613) 421-0669
View Venue Website