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House of Kink Presents: No Boys Allowed – Garden of Delights
April 11 @ 10:30 pm – April 12 @ 2:30 am
The ladies of House of Kink invite you to enter a sensual, otherworldly paradise at our second No Boys Allowed (NBA) event: Garden of Delights.
Let the pulse of deep, intoxicating beats guide you into our not-so-forbidden paradise for an evening of flirtation, connection, and self-expression—where pleasure and playfulness bloom. Our NBA dance events provide a safe space to flirt, express, and connect without the pressure or predatory behavior that can sometimes accompany the male gaze.
Explore various optional interactive stations designed to foster connection and play, such as flower crown making and sensual eating.
Tomo’s kitchen will be serving Ottawa’s most exquisite sushi until 12:30 AM – perfect savouring solo or sharing with your hot date! Handcrafted cocktails and tantalizing drinks will be flowing until 2:00 AM.
NBA events are designed to cultivate a safe and welcoming sanctuary where bi+* women and individuals can connect, embrace their erotic energy, express their sensual and sexual selves authentically, and explore their curiosities—all in an environment free from the male gaze.
Tonight, only women DJs and staff will be tending the garden.
10:30pm to 2:30am | April 11, 2025 | Tomo Restaurant
Who is this for?
NBA events are exclusively welcoming to those who identify as women or as non-men (including trans women and non-binary).
Although NBA events center bisexual and bi-curious women and non-men, all sexualities are welcome, including lesbian, queer, pansexual, omni sexual, asexual, heterosexual, and other multisexual identities. All lifestyles, backgrounds, and body types are welcome.
Theme + Dress code: Sexy attire is highly recommended to help create a sensual atmosphere. This is your chance to embody the untamed beauty of the garden—think soft petals, floral lingerie, sheer fabrics, kimonos, fairy wings, body chains, and more. While this is a softer theme, kinky and fetish attire is always welcome.
If you’re unsure what to wear, DM the HoK team.
We have created a Pinterest board to help inspire you: https://ca.pinterest.com/EventsHouseofK/nba-garden-of-delights/
Event Rules
Please read the following carefully before attending:
- This event is exclusively for women and non-men.(Don’t worry—more HoK parties open to everyone are coming soon! Follow our socials for updates.)
- Consent is key. Always seek clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent before physical contact or activity.
- Public sex and exposed genitals are not permitted on the premises.
- Personal kinky tools/toys (e.g., whips, floggers) are not allowed at the event.
- Personal photography: A designated photography-safe zone will be available. To protect guest privacy, please take photos only in this area.
- Professional photography: A woman photographer will be present for part of the evening to capture images of consenting guests.
- Photos may be used for promotional materials if you choose to pose for the photographer.
- If you do not wish to be photographed or have concerns about future promotional use, please inform the photographer or a HoK Team Member.
- Support & assistance: If you feel unsafe, are being bothered, or have any concerns, please notify a HoK Team Member.
- High-visibility yellow armbands will identify team members.
- You can also report to the person at the door, who will connect you with a HoK Team Member.
Tickets & Venue Details
- Advance ticket purchase is required. Tickets are rarely available at the door.
- TOMO provides coat hangers for your convenience.
- For guest privacy, Tomo’s front windows will be covered on the night of the event.
MUSIC BY:
MADISON is a rising force in Ottawa’s house music scene, proving she knows exactly how to make bodies move and booties shake on any dancefloor. Over the past few years, she’s been slaying the local scene, performing with a variety of Ottawa’s event collectives and rocking the decks at signature clubs like City at Night and 27 Club. This summer, she stepped onto the festival stage for the first time, delivering high-energy sets at Camp Summerdaze and Front Republic Music Festival. Effortlessly blending brooding basslines with ethereal, spacey melodies, MADISON likes to get deep, dark and dirty, sprinkled with a dash of funk. With every set, MADISON hopes to inspire a sonic exploration of the human condition, encouraging listeners to find catharsis, connection, and an undying spirit of rebellion.
LINKS:
https://www.instagram.com/justmadison
ALAMUSIC is a Canadian DJ based in Ottawa, Ontario, known for her funky fusion of House music styles, including Afro, Deep, Tech, and Disco grooves. A resident DJ at Afterlight—Ottawa’s underground lounge & listening bar—she’s also a key player behind Beyond City Beats, a fresh initiative designed to connect, inspire, and grow Ottawa’s thriving underground dance music community.
ALAMUSIC has ignited dance floors across various venues and festivals. Highlights include performances Iglooofest Gatineau opening for Eric Prydz and City at Night where she has opened for the likes of Chus, Sydney Blu, Karsten Sollors, SOSA UK and Return of the Jaded. This past summer, she also performed at RBC Bluesfest with a 3-night residency at the Accora Village SPIN STAGE for the second consecutive year.
Beyond Ottawa, she’s spun at the Wiggle Room in Toronto, Why Not Rooftop Patio in Playa Del Carmen, Mexico, the Modern Agenda Showcase at ADE in Amsterdam and Resonance Musique Resort in Varadero, Cuba. Her festival roster boasts appearances at Black Rabbit Campout, Front Republic and Gaia Fest in Quebec, Camp Wiggly and PHANTOMFEST in Ontario, and Electric Pines in Nova Scotia.
Her ultimate goal is to make people fall in love with music and experience the sheer joy of movement. She aims to take you on a musical journey, creating an irresistible urge to dance while inspiring a shared sense of connection on the dance floor.
LINKS:
https://www.instagram.com/alamusicdj
https://www.facebook.com/alamusicdj.official
LAURA VOX is a techno artist who blends the pulsing energy of Berlin’s underground scene with the raw, unfiltered spirit of Ottawa. Having spent formative years in Berlin, Laura’s sound is deeply influenced by the city’s industrial edge and the hypnotic grooves of its legendary clubs. Now rooted in Canada’s capital, Laura Vox delivers immersive sets that traverse minimal techno, industrial rhythms, and deep, melodic soundscapes.
With an ear for precision and a heart tuned to the dancefloor, Laura crafts experiences that resonate long after the last beat drops. Her sets are a journey—exploring the interplay of shadow and light, chaos and order, as she transforms sound into emotion.
LINKS:
https://www.facebook.com/share/1GeC4rNtdz/?mibextid=wwXIfr
https://on.soundcloud.com/UZmmPG1NhXQqL7BZ8
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